Long time ago there was no need to prepare our kids for adaption to daycare or school. Before the era of urbanization and emancipation, there was no problem at all: children were growing up naturally, they were really just «supervised» by adults around, doing their own children's activities or helping parents with household chores as much as possible.

The only way to raise the ability to communicate with people not from your family was acquired by itself, in the process of games and quarrels with neighboring children.

Now most people never leave your child to his own devices, to play in the yard, one of the adults must "walk" together, do nothing else at this time. Only very few, those who work outside the office and on a free schedule, can combine the work that brings money with caring of their preschool child.

Nowadays we all questioned which daycare to choose for your children. As we have our own reasons to follow elder life therefore we try to highlight 5 important points to help you in choosing the best place for your kids.

Feel your gut
Choosing a daycare, it is important to look not so much at the equipment and schedule of developing activities as at the personality of the teacher. How does she talk with children, does she enter into personal contact, does she look into the eyes, hugs, is she attentive to the state of the child, and not just to his behavior? Do the children like her?

No contact with a adult - stress
Indeed, everything is simple for the child: there is no personal contact with a permanent adult therefore - stress. Important to make a child to be cared of someone else's adult if he is introduced by his parents as his "deputy" - in case of daycare, a kindergarten teacher.

Comfortable parents comfortable children
The relations between teacher and children itself speak about whether the child will feel well in the garden. It is very important that the parents like teacher, that they themselves feel trust in her, if not - the child always intuitively considers this and will be stressed already in advance. To make your kid feel care, protection and safety make trust yourself firstly. Understand which person in a daycare has a better emotional approach to your child and ask to pay more attention in the period of adaptation.

Different environment
Often before going to a daycare your kids staying home with parents, having a lot care and attention in a calm and comfortable familiar environment. They have their own toys, room, territory and habitual way of life. But a daycare is different it's a lot of other kids running, crying, shouting, playing around, it's a nosy place which you share together all. Prepare your kid in advance : visiting playgrounds with lots of kids, some children activities, find a non-typical atmosphere to feel unusual, let to play and contact with other kids. Just introduce him to different environment before you start to leave him and he get used quickly!

Relatives participation
Your child is attending a daycare but he still feels not comfortable. In the beginning it could happen when you bring him and he doesn't want to split with a mother. Try to attract any other person from your family or somebody kid trusts. This will make parting with a child less painful.

There are simple things we were talking about to be calm, patient and attentive to your children. Take to your account and it makes the adaption of your kid more easier and happier!